Why this wife lets her husband sleep with other women

While many wives would be devastated at hearing their husbands have slept with other people, Honey Brooks has actively been encouraging the act.

The 34-year-old revealed that her husband Hank, 36, has had sex with at least 80 other women in the past few years.

Brooks said she and her husband will often invite other women into their bedroom and this act has immensely “strengthened” their marriage.

The mom-of-two said they first took the plunge to open their marriage up to other females three years ago and have not looked back.

“Our first time inviting another girl into the bedroom was called Evie, who posed as a naughty nanny,” Brooks told news.com.au.

“I was nervous because it was our first time, but also felt excited because I have always loved the idea of being with another woman.

“It was sexy sharing her with my husband. I wondered whether I would feel jealous but as it turned out, I did not feel any jealousy at all,” she said.

“Since then, we have brought a number of other women into our bedroom.”

Brooks said there are some important ground rules the couple have set before entering into this unique arrangement.

Firstly, only women will be part of their bedroom fun and they will not be inviting men into the mix.

Hank is also never allowed to be alone with the women, with Brooks always being included in the encounters.

“It is never done separately or as a secret,” she said.

“We decide as a team who we will bring into our bedroom. If either one of us has any doubts or isn’t in the mood, we don’t continue.”

“We constantly listen to and communicate with one another, right up until she leaves. Even after the encounter, we debrief and touch base with how each other are feeling.”

“It’s so important to respect each other’s feelings. The enjoyment needs to be 100 percent mutual, otherwise it’s not worth continuing.”

“We never put pressure on ourselves to feel a certain way. We respect each other and always take it slow.”

Brooks and Hank first met at their local football club back in 2009 and tied the knot a few years later.

While she said she and her husband have always been extremely close, these experiences have only strengthened their bond.

“It has certainly strengthened our marriage in that we’ve become so much closer, our trust, communication and bond is so strong,” she said.

“I feel like we’ve never been more open about what we love in the bedroom, there’s no shame, we can discuss anything and I think that is powerful in itself.”

“Opening our marriage has added excitement, spice and variety to our everyday life.”

A common misconception is that one person will develop feelings for a new person if they are introduced into their love life.

However, Brooks said for them, this has never happened and she believes it would never be a possibility due to the strength of their bond.

“Hank has never had an emotional connection with another women,” she said.

“I don’t think he has even thought about it, since we don’t see many of the other women again.”

“I am completely secure in our relationship and hold the greatest trust and loyalty.”

Although this facet of their marriage works well for Brooks and Hank, the wife admits that this arrangement may not be for everyone.

“If you think you might like to try bringing another person into your relationship, I suggest taking it slow,” she said.

“Communicate every step of the way, respect each other’s boundaries and if at any stage your partner feels uncomfortable, you both need to stop.”

“Remember this is a ‘us’ thing, not ‘me,’ so the pleasure needs to work both ways.”