My boyfriend is ‘biromantic’ — now we’re in a throuple with my gay bestie
She was in a mén-age à trois.
She put the “BF” in “BFFs.” A woman named Sarah has formed one of the most unique throuples ever after discovering that her gay bestie had the hots for them and vice versa.
“My friend turned my boyfriend bi,” Sarah announced in a viral video posted to the YouTube channel, “Love Don’t Judge.”
She and James initially got together in high school and were in a monogamous heterosexual relationship for nine years. That all changed last year when Sarah’s gay best friend and roommate Hunter admitted that he had caught feelings for both her and her beau, whom he met when they were looking for a place to live.
“We were sitting down packing and he said ‘I’ve got something to tell you guys, I have feelings for you both,’” she recalled. “And James went, ‘huh?’ And I said ‘same!’ without skipping a beat.”
Hunter said he found this attraction “confusing” as well. “I cared for her a little bit more than a friend, but at the same time knew I was gay,” he said in the clip. James, meanwhile, had never been with a man before and had a hard time reconciling his affection.
But he eventually embraced his feelings, and voila, their unconventional polyamorous arrangement was born.
Now, James and Sarah both identify as “bisexual” while their third wheel claims he’s “biromantic.”
As for hanky panky when it comes to this man-wich, the odd throuple divulged that Sarah and James have sex and James and Hunter make whoopie.
Meanwhile, Hunter “pleases” Sarah in other ways because he’s only attracted to the same sex.
Interestingly, the polyamorous trifecta wanted to form a romantic menage e trois — which generally involves one man with multiple women — but decided to make an exception given their three-way attraction.
“We had never considered adding a third person to the relationship before that,” declared Sarah. “I’m a jealous person.”
Hunter also used to believe that three’s a crowd, stating: “I prefer monogamy until we got into whatever this is.”
People close to them haven’t been nearly as accepting of the throuple’s alternative lifestyle.
“One of my friends was weirded out by it,” said Sarah. “She was asking if I was okay.”
She said her family even asked if the arrangement was her choice or her boyfriend’s.
However, the three little lovebirds aren’t going to let haters rain on their polyamorous parade.
“I feel like when we first started out we were worried about how we were perceived and how our friends and family would think about us, but at the end of the day we are just doing what makes us happy and if people want to judge, so be it,” said James.
